Empathy is the most effective form of love for all nurturing and healing relationships, that needs to precede any boundary enforcement.
We can learn how to use empathy in various relationship settings, such as self-reflection/meditation, family interaction, communication in relationships/ partnership, and social interaction.
What is the highest level of compassion, i.e., empathy at Stage 5?
It is to understand others’ emotions from their perspectives in various settings, including those of the victims and their families,
and those of the perpetrators, even when they commit crimes such as killing others for no apparent reasons other than suspected mental challenges such as depression and suicidality .
Empathy, i.e. compassion at Stage 5, implies inclusion, diversity, and equity.
What Empathy is not:
Empathy is not simply
1. to identify: cry when others cry like babies do
2. to please: shower with nice gifts such as money, jewelry, or car
3. to advise: give a well-intended advice/lecture out of worries
4. to show pity: providing a good meal/financial support for the unfortunate
5. to show sympathy: feel for those who are in the similar experienced situation
6. to be indifferent: be respectful of one's personal right to the freedom of experiencing danger, misery, depression, loneliness, and lack of safety and security
(for example, homelessness)
What is Dark Empathy?
When empathy is used in negative way for personal gain, it can be called Dark Empathy.
Empathic communication starts with the one toward self when we experience failure, make mistakes, feel defeated, and inadequate.
We need to reevaluate conventional parenting strategies that may be ineffective in repairing the damaged relationships with emotionally challenged child.
Teachers and school officials are often concerned about keeping the order of a class or school to be less empathic dealing with emotionally challenged children. They often use consequences based on authoritative disciplining principle before showing any empathy for the acting out children.
Most of the communication breakdown happens because of the each party’s inability to show empathy toward each other.
Many of the politicians, government employees and public servants may have difficulty to use empathy because of their primary policy aim to keep the order of the society and fulfillment of their job duty required as a system.
Be in Demand with Our Empathy Training
We humans are not equipped with effective empathy skills essential for maintaining or repairing healthy relationships.
Therefore, empathy as the most advanced communication/parenting skills need to be trained for.
Coming Soon.
Empathic Self communication Training
You can learn the most effective parenting approach to help emotionally challenged children practicing with commonly used communication samples.
Empathic Parent communication Training
You can learn the most effective parenting approach to help emotionally challenging using these most commonly used communication samples children.
Empathic Teacher Communication Training
You can learn how to communicate with your partner in conflict using these most commonly used communication samples.
Empathic Couple Communication Training
You can learn how to communicate with your partner in conflict using these most commonly used communication samples.
Application of Empathic Approach to Government / Social Programs
You can learn how to apply empathy to social programs civil servants such as police, legal representatives and politicians working for citizens including disadvantaged, criminals and homeless population.
Training in Balancing between Empathy and Boundary Setting
You can learn how to find the balance between boundary setting and empathy to prevent possible breakdown of workable relationship for reparation
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